You’re probably not there yet, but you’ll get there. You’re not feeling it, or you’re feeling it more with someone else, or it’s run its course, or whatever.Even if you don’t believe it fully, just allow a part of yourself to humor the idea that this will lead to something good. You can always go back to not trusting in the process/Universe/etc. Empathize with the Breaker-Upper No, I’m not BSing you. Whatever the reason, it’s generally not because they’re some awful, undatable person.Trust in the Process Perhaps you have a spiritual belief that helps you manage moments like this that you can’t understand.The thing is, due to the power of the Universe or the process or what, it helps to just trust that this will, at some point, lead you to something positive.
Here’s how you can rely on God’s help to transform rejection into opportunity: Understand how significantly your response to rejection will impact your life.
Unfortunately, we all have to deal with these ugly truths.
Everyone encounters rejection in this fallen world.
Maybe it’s because it’s only been in the past few months that I’ve finally allowed myself to be vulnerable, thereby allowing rejection to occur (whereas the year and a half prior was spent healing from my ex and being “guarded”)? As I sat in my pain, this is what I wrote: These are just examples of positives in the experience of the pain itself.
Maybe it’s because I’m choosing to date emotionally unavailable (aka “safe”) men? There’s a good chance you’ll be able to also find the positive in the experience of having the “relationship,” but also of being out of it.